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Distress SignalNewborn · 0 to 3mo07 Aug

How much are you both actually sleeping? Trying to work out if we are doing this wrong or if this is just what it is.

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As Squinting Weasel 951 · 0/400
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Broken, in pieces, about five hours total each on a good night. The thing that changed it was splitting the night into two blocks and each properly owning one. Being genuinely off duty for four hours beats both of you half-waking all night.

Squinting Fox 29 · 07 Aug